We all live within a complex social network. One of the most difficult things to do within this network is to maintain and build upon our relationships. Relationships which we value, derive our strength from and which give us a sense of belonging. These relationships can be with your partner, parents, siblings, cousins, friends, work colleagues and even online social network friends.
If you really value and cherish some of your relationships and want them to last forever, then please stop taking them for granted. It is not enough to just remember special dates but more importantly, it is imperative for you to be there for them when they need you the most, standing by their side, hearing them out patiently, even when it is difficult for them to make sense because they could be in a trauma, hurt or confused.
If you need them in your life, you need to reciprocate to their needs in the same way you want them to react to yours. It sounds simple, but hard to put into practice.
Moving into 2012, make yourself one promise that you will treat your precious relationships with care, and trust me you will feel a massive guilt off your conscience.
One smart tip to keep your close relationships fresh is to maintain a small separation, a breather or time to reflect, just when you feel that you have started to take your relationships for granted, give them a break and if they were really important to you, you will realise their value and go back to them with new impetus.
